5 Simple Steps to Hire a Special Education Advocate
Kelly Berstecher
September 26, 2023

Special Education Advocacy · Pennsylvania

By Kelly Berstecher, Nexus Education Services · founder and senior special education advocate. Originally published September 26, 2023.

Navigating the special education process can be a daunting journey for parents of children with special needs. Special education advocates play a vital role in ensuring that children receive appropriate special education services in accordance with federal and state laws. They bridge the gap between parents, school staff, and the complex world of special education. In this blog, we'll guide you through five simple steps to help you find a qualified special education advocate for your child's education.

First, let us help you understand what a special education advocate is and how they can help. A special education advocate is an experienced and knowledgeable professional who specializes in assisting parents and guardians of children with special needs in navigating the intricate and often complex world of special education. These advocates are well-versed in federal and state laws, including the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA), and are dedicated to ensuring that children with disabilities receive appropriate special education services. At Nexus Education Services, our advocate is a certified special education teacher who has written hundreds of IEPs and is now practicing advocacy full-time supporting and empowering families for their student's success

Start here: before you hire anyone

  1. Pull your paperwork together. Your child's latest evaluation or re-evaluation, current IEP, and progress reports are what an advocate will ask for first.
  2. Interview more than one advocate. Ask about experience, education, knowledge of IDEA and state law, references, certifications, and COPAA membership.
  3. Know when it's a legal matter. Complex disputes and due process hearings may call for a special education attorney.

Step 1

Where can I find a special education advocate near me?

Start with research and the people around your child. Online listings and local support organizations are a good first pass. Teachers, school counselors, and other parents often know advocates firsthand, and COPAA keeps a list of qualified professionals.

Step 1: Research Local Resources

Your journey toward finding the right special education advocate begins with thorough research. Start by exploring online resources, websites, and special education-related web pages that provide valuable information about advocates in your area. Many advocates or advocacy groups have websites that showcase their services and expertise. Local support organizations and developmental disability councils can also offer helpful guidance.

Furthermore, don't underestimate the power of personal connections. Special education teachers, school counselors, and parents of children with special needs can be valuable sources of information and recommendations. These individuals have often worked closely with special education advocates and can offer insights into their experiences.

The Council of Parent Attorneys and Advocates (COPAA) is an excellent resource for finding advocates. COPAA maintains a list of qualified professionals who specialize in special education advocacy, ensuring that you have access to trusted experts who can assist you in navigating the special education system effectively.

Step 2

What should I prepare before contacting an advocate?

Your child's records and your own notes. Gather the most recent evaluation or re-evaluation, the current IEP, and progress reports. Then write down your concerns and the goals you want for your child.

Step 2: Understand Your Child's Needs

Before reaching out to a special education advocate, it's crucial to have a clear understanding of your child's special needs and educational requirements. Review your child's Individualized Education Program (IEP) and progress reports. Be sure to have their most recent Educational Evaluation or Re-evaluation to share with the advocate along with their most recent Individualized Education Plan (IEP). Take notes of any concerns you have and the specific goals you want to achieve for your child. This preparation will help the advocate gain a comprehensive understanding of your child's situation and provide you with more tailored guidance.

The advocate's role is to ensure that your child's IEP is well-aligned with their educational needs, and the more information you can provide regarding those needs, the more effectively the advocate can advocate on your child's behalf.

Step 3

What questions should I ask a special education advocate?

Ask about experience and qualifications. Find out how long they've been advocating, their education, how well they know IDEA and state law, whether they have references, what certifications they hold, and whether they're active COPAA members.

Step 3: Contact Potential Advocates

Once you've compiled a list of potential advocates, it's time to reach out to them. This can be done via a phone call, email, or through a contact form on their website. During these initial interactions, it's essential to gather information about their background and expertise. Key questions to ask include:

  • How long have they been working as a special education advocate?
  • What is their educational background?
  • Are they well-versed in federal laws, state laws, and the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA)?
  • Can they provide references from previous clients?
  • What certifications or qualifications do they hold?
  • Are they active members of COPAA?

By seeking answers to these questions, you can evaluate the advocates based on their experience and educational qualifications. This will help you identify those whose expertise aligns best with your child's specific needs.

Step 4

What interpersonal skills should a good advocate have?

The skills that keep the school relationship working. Listening, empathy, clear communication, conflict resolution, negotiation, and adaptability all come into play at the IEP table. Ask how they handle disagreements with school staff.

Step 4: Assess Interpersonal Skills

In addition to the technical aspects of special education advocacy, consider the interpersonal skills of the advocate. Effective communication is key to building positive and collaborative relationships with school personnel, administrators, and service providers. Special education advocates should possess strong interpersonal skills to navigate potential conflicts and collaboratively work toward the best outcome for the student.

When speaking with potential advocates, inquire about their approach to building relationships and resolving conflicts during IEP meetings. How do they ensure effective communication between all parties involved? The ability to maintain a harmonious working relationship with the school staff is crucial to achieving the best education plan for your child.

Special education advocates play a crucial role in bridging the gap between parents and the educational system to ensure that children with special needs receive the best possible education. To effectively fulfill their role, special education advocates should possess a range of interpersonal skills. Here are some key interpersonal skills that a special education advocate should have:

  • Active Listening Skills
  • Empathy
  • Effective Communication
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Negotiating Skills
  • Adaptability

Step 5

When do I need a special education attorney instead of an advocate?

When the case turns into a legal dispute. Many advocates aren't attorneys. Complex legal issues and due process hearings may call for a special education attorney, and if you're unsure, a consultation with one will tell you.

Step 5: Consider Legal Professionals

While many special education advocates are non-attorney advocates, there are situations in which the involvement of a special education attorney may be necessary. This is particularly true when your child's case involves complex legal issues or disputes. Special education attorneys bring a deep understanding of the legal aspects of the special education process, including due process hearings and legal rights, and can represent your child effectively in these situations.

To determine whether you need a special education attorney, assess the complexity of your child's situation and any potential legal issues that may arise. If you're uncertain, consult with a special education attorney to evaluate your specific needs and whether their services are required to safeguard your child's educational rights effectively.

Quick answers

Questions parents ask most

Are special education advocates attorneys?

Many aren't. Most advocates are non-attorney advocates who know special education law and the IEP process. A special education attorney comes in when there's a complex legal issue, a dispute, or a due process hearing.

What is COPAA?

The Council of Parent Attorneys and Advocates. It keeps a list of professionals who specialize in special education advocacy, so it's a good place to start your search.

Should an advocate work with the school or against it?

With it. A good advocate builds a working relationship with school staff and resolves conflicts in IEP meetings, because that's how your child ends up with the best education plan.

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Ready to find the right advocate?

In conclusion, hiring a qualified special education advocate is a critical step in ensuring your child receives the appropriate special education services they need. By following these five simple steps, you can find the best advocate to support your child's education program and secure their educational future. Remember that having the right advocate by your side can level the playing field for your child and help you navigate the complex world of special education with confidence. Special education advocates are there to support you and champion your child's future, ensuring that they receive the best possible education. With the right advocate, you can set your child on the path to success in the world of special education.

If you're navigating the special education system in Pennsylvania and want an advocate in your corner, we can help. Book a consultation →

About the author. Kelly Berstecher is the founder and senior special education advocate at Nexus Education Services. A former special education teacher, professional consultant and trainer, and COPAA member, Kelly helps Pennsylvania families and professionals navigate complex special education decisions. More about Kelly →

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